I Stopped Chasing the American Dream. Then I Built My Own

I Stopped Chasing the American Dream. Then I Built My Own

For as long as I can remember, I wanted a simple life close to nature. Some of my earliest memories are of spending time at my grandpa's cabin, and that idea of having a place of my own never really went away.

But wanting that kind of life and figuring out how to build it are two different things.

In 2020, I was living in my van and saving what I could. Then I was unexpectedly laid off. I had already been working toward living off-grid, and that change pushed me to finally get started. I bought affordable land that I had researched carefully and could pay for in cash.

I Stopped Chasing the American Dream. Then I Built My Own.

A look back at six years of building my off-grid homestead in Arizona.

Six Years of Building, One Project at a Time

In the video, I look back at some of the earliest photos and footage I have from the property and compare them with what the homestead looks like today. There are views from above that show how much the land has changed, along with footage of the projects that made everyday life here more practical.

I started with what I had. The van gave me somewhere to live. Building the shop gave me room to work. I started storing water in totes and later built underground cisterns when buying large tanks wasn't in the budget. Over time I developed places to grow food, added solar power, and eventually built the cabin.

There's also a look inside the cabin in this video. It's only 10 by 20 feet, but it's become a comfortable home that suits the way I live.

What Off-Grid Living Actually Changed

I haven't tried to become completely self-sufficient. I still buy groceries, haul water when I need to, repair equipment, and deal with the same kinds of everyday problems everyone else does.

What has changed is how much of my daily life is supported by things I've built myself. Shelter, water, food, power, and income have gradually become connected parts of a life I can manage on my own terms.

None of this happened overnight. Some projects have changed several times as I've learned what works. I don't see that as a failure. It's simply part of building something over the long term.

A Fairly Ordinary Life, in a Place I Love

After six years, one of the things that surprises me most is how ordinary this life feels. I still work, have responsibilities, and make plans for the future. I just happen to live rurally, surrounded by animals, nature, and the things I've always enjoyed.

That's what this video is really about. Not escaping the world or proving that everyone should live the way I do. Just finding a way to build a life that fits.

If you're considering off-grid living yourself, I've also put together a free resources on my Start Here page to help you begin researching where your plans might be possible. There's no need to rush into buying land before you understand the county.

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Starting from scratch, you have done a pretty amazing job!

Susan TRUJILLO

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